Creating a culture of support for survivors of stalking, intimate partner violence, and sexual assault is essential for making our community a safer place.
Plus, hearing about these issues from people we already know and trust is a major factor in changing unhealthy cultural attitudes toward violence.
So how can you start a conversation about violence? Here are some tips to help.
Know your barriers. Personal barriers can prevent us from starting tough conversations. You might be afraid of what others will think of you or feel like you’re not qualified to talk about this important issue. The key is to learn what your personal barriers are and find ways to overcome them.
Watch a movie and discuss it. Next time you watch a movie or TV show with someone, talk about the characters’ relationships – are they healthy or unhealthy? Being able to identify these behaviors in media can help you notice them in real life, either in your own relationship or someone else’s.
Share what you’ve read. Have you read something recently about violence that caught your attention? Talk with friends or family about how it impacted you. Ask them what they think and share your thoughts.
Get active on social media. Follow organizations and individuals who are posting about violence prevention and healthy relationships. Like or share posts from accounts like WSU Coug Health, Alternatives to Violence on the Palouse, and the Washington State Coalition Against Domestic Violence.
If you’re not sure what to share, considering posting a positive story or video about someone who took action to ensure another person’s safety.
Show your support for violence prevention. Stop by our programs and outreach office for a keychain or a sticker for your water bottle! You never know what will spark a conversation.
Don’t forget there are other ways you can help prevent violence. When more Cougs take action, less violence happens in our community!